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How do you deal with BPD in a relationship?
Trust that you can have the confidence to let a relationship evolve on it’s own at a slower, more natural pace. Most people believe that people with BPD have some elaborate plan to “hook” you in with their “masterfully crafted” seductions.
Are people with borderline personality disorder (BPD) creative?
The reality is that people with Borderline Personality Disorder are still unique, creative individuals. They can be amazing with the right partner. But, you need to be aware of the three main BPD relationship stages (there’s probably more but these 3 are the most important).
What is the Seducer stage in a BPD relationship?
What I can tell you is that BPD relationships require setting strong boundaries early on and having the right attitude. Any hint of Codependency and you’ll pretty much fail in these relationships. The Seducer Stage plays right into your needs and desires.
Why do BPD relationships evolve towards chaos?
You never seem to get what you truly want (which is pure affection and love with zero negative vibes). But, a relationship with weak boundaries is a relationship that will die a slow death. It will grow more and more toxic as the weeks go by. This is why BPD relationships evolve towards chaos.
Why do women with traits of BPD devalue their romantic partners?
In Part One of this blog series, Romantic Devaluation and Idealization In Women With Traits of BPD we explored the reasons why so many women on the spectrum of BPD devalue their romantic partners once the initial honeymoon phase comes to an end. We identified devaluation as the inevitable result of a woman who idealizes her romantic partner.
Can BPD symptoms come back after treatment?
However, research suggests that full-blown BPD symptoms rarely coming back after remission. Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) focuses on the concept of mindfulness, or paying attention to the present emotion. DBT teaches skills to control intense emotions, reduce self-destructive behavior, manage distress, and improve relationships.
What are the different stages of a BPD relationship?
Stages of a BPD Relationship and How They Evolve 1 These stages are the Honeymoon/Seducer Stage, the Vulnerable Clinger Stage and then… 2 You fall for the spell and feel like you’ve found “the one.” 3 Doing good deeds and being this “white knight” will never score you any points. 4 This is why BPD relationships evolve towards chaos.