How do you protect yourself from a narcissistic revenge?
THE BASICS
- Don’t take the bait and fight with them.
- Understand their criticism for what it is: It is not about you.
- When you communicate, set clear boundaries, and use clear communication.
- If you have to make a decision to stay away, make it clearly and boldly, and follow through.
Why do narcissists seek revenge?
It’s also normal to want to hurt people who have hurt us. Nobody likes feeling like they’re being played. We tend to seek revenge because we think it will give us a sense of justice. We also believe it might help us heal from the pain we’ve endured.
How do I deal with a narcissist legally?
How to Deal with a Narcissist in Court Proceedings
- Common Narcissistic Traits. Exaggerated self-importance (feelings of superiority without achievements to support it)
- Don’t Engage.
- Shield Your Kids from the Conflict.
- Don’t Expect Mediation to Work.
- Document Everything.
- Be Prepared to Explain Narcissism to the Judge.
What is the best revenge against a narcissist?
The Best Revenge for a Narcissist. Narcs thrive on supply/attention. Control is their mothership, as they fear intimacy. Primarily they vacillate between fear and anger. Think, petty angry brooding sulking spoiled brat. Narc injury. Thus, ignoring a petty spoiled fearful control freak naturally is going to evoke fear and rage.
How can you have a relationship with a narcissist?
The only way to have a relationship with a narcissist is to meet their expectations, be on the same page as them, perfect oneself, and not disagree or have a separate opinion. Many accommodate their needs by losing themselves in the relationship or giving a lot, in order to meet their needs, to fill the empty void of the narcissist.
How long does a narcissist take to come back?
Depends on how easy one makes it… given the chance, it could be a week, a couple months, two years. The longer the duration you are away the greater the chance they will come back once an opportunity is presented.
How do you deal with a narcissistic husband?
Take back your confidence. Narcissistic relationships can negatively impact your confidence. Start building it back. Use that confidence to handle the situations your husband throws you, use it to stay strong when he lies, and use it to stay calm when he may not respond well to your attempts to talk.