Table of Contents
- 1 How do I convince my parents to let me hang out with boys?
- 2 Is it OK to not talk to your mom?
- 3 How do I convince my parents to let me hang out with a guy friend?
- 4 Why can’t I talk to boys on the phone?
- 5 What should you do when your mother says bad things about you?
- 6 What do you do when you have a toxic mother?
How do I convince my parents to let me hang out with boys?
When you do sit down to chat, remain calm, explain why you want to go out with your boyfriend, give your mom details about the date and be willing to listen to what she has to say about it. Establish a safety plan so that your mom knows you are responsible enough to be trusted out on your own with your boyfriend.
Is it OK to not talk to your mom?
This may be a good thing — your parents are willing to try to develop a healthy relationship! But not talking to a parent does not often last forever. You can use this to soothe yourself if you feel bad about it, but you should also keep it in mind if you initiate contact and end up regretting it.
How do I convince my parents to let me hang out with a guy friend?
Have your parents talk to your friends or any chaperones. Give them the opportunity to call and talk with the other parents. Showing your parents that you will have supervision will help convince them to let you go out. If you don’t have adults going with you, don’t lie to your parents and say that there are some.
How do you tell your strict mom u have a boyfriend?
Discuss the person. Tell your parents about your boyfriend. Talk to them about his family and what you like about him. Highlight his good qualities so they get a sense of who he is. It’s also helpful to have a photo for them to see.
How do you feel when your mother is not talking to you?
You are 14 and your mother isn’t talking to you. You argue every day. You are angry she is a smoker of cigarettes. You feel she isn’t spending money on things you need.
Why can’t I talk to boys on the phone?
You can talk to boys at school, at the mall, the brothers of your friends. So why is it that this is forbidden. You can talk to anyone you want on the phone ant that is the main problem. Your parents have no controle there and they don’t know who you have contact with. So I’m sorry but I can understand that.
What should you do when your mother says bad things about you?
As therapist Kimberly Hershenson, LMSW tells Bustle, “A mother’s role is to provide unconditional love, safety, and support,” so it’ll feel really bad when she uses harsh words or brings up a sore subject. The best thing you can do, in these moments, is to take good care of yourself.
What do you do when you have a toxic mother?
It’s tough having a toxic mom, but remember there are things you can do to cope. As Patel says, “You are not your mom. You can take control and detach yourself. Seek support and therapy if needed. Do not react, take this personally, and do not feel responsible for your mom’s feelings.