How do you get a borderline to talk to you again?
Here are a few basic pointers for communicating with someone with borderline personality disorder in a healthy and productive way:
- Be patient.
- Be realistic.
- Try to separate facts from feelings.
- Validate feelings first.
- Listen actively and be sympathetic.
- Seek to distract when emotions rise.
How do you deal with a borderline relationship?
Finding Relief if You’re Facing Relationship Problems Due to Borderline Personality Disorder
- Seek out information.
- Get help.
- Practice healthy communication.
- Ask open-ended questions.
- Talk only when your partner is calm.
- Offer support.
- Avoid labeling or blaming.
- Take threats seriously.
Why do women with traits of BPD devalue their romantic partners?
In Part One of this blog series, Romantic Devaluation and Idealization In Women With Traits of BPD we explored the reasons why so many women on the spectrum of BPD devalue their romantic partners once the initial honeymoon phase comes to an end. We identified devaluation as the inevitable result of a woman who idealizes her romantic partner.
What are the first signs of devaluation in a relationship?
The first signs that devaluation might be taking place for a woman on the spectrum of BPD might come about as awareness of seeds of suspicion or doubt about her relationship partner’s good character.
Why does a BPD woman recycle her exes?
Some self aware individuals may recycle a current relationship if she is attached in some way, has feelings for you etc. This is only if you split up and she did not move onto another partner. The reason is that some BPD people do not like to be alone. BPD individuals do not necessarily hoover, like say a histrionic or narcissist would.
What is devaluation in narcissistic abuse?
What is Devaluation in Narcissistic Abuse? Devaluation is what is happening when a narcissist tears you down emotionally, insults you (outright or covertly), and makes you doubt yourself and your self-worth.