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How do you get over hurting your best friend?
- Make sure you read the situation correctly.
- Try talking about the issue with your friend.
- Discuss it with someone else you trust.
- Look for ways to resolve the conflict.
- Know when not to talk.
- Know when to cut your losses.
- Let it go.
- Don’t paint all of your friends with the same brush.
What to say to a friend who you have hurt?
I realize I hurt your feelings, and I’m sorry,” acknowledges that you know what it was you said that hurt the other person, and you take responsibility for it. Don’t make assumptions and don’t try to shift the blame. Make it clear that you regret your actions and that you are sincerely sorry.
How do you deal with friends who let you down?
Make a point to maintain your composure and avoid saying anything out of hurt or anger. This isn’t the time to be passive-aggressive or use sarcasm. Rather, be open and honest about your feelings. Remember to treat your friend the way that you would want to be treated if the tables were turned.
How should I handle my feelings after being hurt by a friend?
If you’ve been hurt by a friend, you need God’s help. Here are my suggestions for how to handle your feelings after being hurt: 1. Take your hurts to God. In 1 Peter 5:7 we read, “Cast all your cares on him, because he cares for you.” God cares about your hurt feelings.
What should I do if my friends are not on my Side?
Don’t paint all of your friends with the same brush. Sometimes people who we think are on our side turn out not to be, for reasons we may never learn. If this happens, don’t seek revenge, but move on and away from the hurt. Other friends can help with this. Most friends don’t set out to hurt us.
Do you have to be vulnerable in a friendship?
Friendships can be messy, just like all other relationships. To go deep with a friend, you must be vulnerable, and you truly risk being hurt. I can honestly say that none of my closer-than-a-sister friendships happened without deep vulnerability on both sides.
Is it difficult to accept that your best friend has betrayed you?
My dear,because it’s very difficult. It’s very difficult to accept the fact that your only best friend, the one who you loved most dearly betrayed you. As for me,everytime I pick up my phone to try to talk to her or forgive her,all our times spent together just crashes in front of me and only one question remains.’why?’