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What are key signs that someone could be suffering from abuse?
Signs of physical abuse
- bruises, black eyes, welts, lacerations, and rope marks.
- broken bones.
- open wounds, cuts, punctures, untreated injuries in various stages of healing.
- broken eyeglasses/frames, or any physical signs of being punished or restrained.
- laboratory findings of either an overdose or under dose medications.
How do emotional abuse victims act?
Victims may comply, numb out, take anti-depressants, live in a detached state of being, pretend that everythings fine, etc. Sometimes in family systems you hear of the scapegoat, the golden child, the family mascot, etc.
Why do families deny abuse?
Instead, by denying or minimizing the abuse, they find a way to avoid dealing with its widespread and significant implications. Even in cases where families believe that abuse was perpetrated or abusers admit or are found guilty of their crimes, denial allows family members to minimize its importance.
What is belittling a child?
Belittling is the intentional act of making another feel worthless, empty, and dismissed. If a parent is the perpetrator of the act of belittling, he/she may feel insecure, doubtful or lacking confidence in his/her own person. Thus, the parent sees the child as an extension of his/her own personhood.
What childhood trauma causes jealousy?
Undoubtedly, maltreatment by caregivers (including physical abuse, physical neglect, emotional abuse, and emotional neglect) is the most typical type of social rejection and a source of social pain in children. It may lead to feelings of envy in adulthood.
What does it mean to live inside your head too much?
It tells you that you’re being too ridiculous, or dramatic, or picky, or too sensitive, or not sensitive enough… the voice that has an opinion on absolutely everything? That voice can be great at times, it can even be a life saver! But it can also be toxic. When you live inside your head too much, you start to believe your own bullsh*t.
Why do people who are emotionally hurt tend to be unconfident?
People who are emotionally hurt usually are very unconfident because they’ve been belittled too long and don’t trust their point of view anymore. They live in a continuous cycle of doubts and need constant reassurance that they are on the right track.
What is emotionally hurt people?
Emotionally hurt people feel everything very intensely. Sometimes their emotions are so deep and intense that they have to retreat from any social interaction and be alone with themselves far away from all people and situations that could destroy their fragile peace. 3. Their sleep is not healthy