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What is a toxic person?
Toxic people can spread unhappiness and personal suffering. They ultimately poison things with which they come in touch: other people, careers, businesses, marriages, and especially children.
Do you recognize these 4 types of toxic people?
There are at least four basic types of toxic people: the narcissistic-aggressive person, the “frenemy,” the negative-complaining person, and the seductive, overly-dramatic person. Let’s take a closer look and see if you can recognize any of these folks in your daily life.
What are the signs of a toxic relationship?
Toxic people are draining; encounters leave you emotionally wiped out. Time with them is about taking care of their business, which will leave you feeling frustrated and unfulfilled, if not angry. Don’t allow yourself to become depleted as a result of giving and giving and getting nothing in return.
Should you avoid people with toxic personalities?
Above all things, avoid those people with toxic personalities. Based upon the work of the great personologist Dr. Theodore Millon, we can gain insight into who those people might be. “ Friendship makes prosperity more shining and lessens adversity by dividing and sharing it,” according to the philosopher Cicero.
A toxic person is anyone whose behavior adds negativity and upset to your life. Many times, people who are toxic are dealing with their own stresses and traumas. To do this, they act in ways that don’t present them in the best light and usually upset others along the way.
Why do I shut down when I’m upset?
For some people, shutting down emotionally is a response to feeling overstimulated. It doesn’t have anything to do with you or how they feel about you. If your husband or partner shuts down when you cry, for example, it may be because they don’t know the best way to handle that display of emotions.
What should you do when you are falsely accused of something?
Think about the person making the accusation and think about how you might be able to talk to others who are not a part of the situation. You need to go to outside sources and connections to handle a situation where you are being falsely accused.
Should you talk about the things you are accused of?
Do not talk about it until you have calmed down. It might take you a little time to calm down after being accused of something. If that is the case, be sure to state that you need a few moments to gather yourself, but when you are done, you will talk about it.
What happens when you accuse someone unfairly?
If you accuse a person unfairly, he/she still has that twinge — just from having the finger pointed at him/her. Don’t fall into the trap of acting out with non-directional frustration. The stress that comes with being wrongly accused can lead a person to act out with those closest to them, like a spouse or child.
Are You putting yourself in a prison by responding to accusations?
If you allow yourself to be intimidated, feel guilty or shrink away because of what people think, you are putting yourself in a prison. Don’t try to address every accusation. If you decide to start defending yourself, that will become your full-time job.