Why do narcissist discard you?
The narcissist sees people as objects they use to meet their needs, and to discard when the person no longer serves a purpose for them. A narcissist will discard when the person no longer can boost the narc’s ego or be the fuel to replenish their narcissistic supply.
Why do narcs go back to their ex?
Narcissists lack “object constancy.” Because recyclers lack object constancy, when they become narcissistically wounded by their current lover, they lose all their positive feelings towards the person. And as each lover, in turn, disappoints or angers them, they move on again and again.
Why does the narcissist keep seeking contact with the ex?
The narcissists keep seeking contact with the ex because they are afraid of losing control. And they know exactly who is weak and who can serve them as a playing surface. The toxic ex-partner cannot bear it when the partner wants to start a new life, so he makes it difficult for her. Even if you can hardly believe it: such people actually exist.
Why does the narcissist come back after months?
Victims often believe that when the narcissist comes back after months, it’s because they’re in love. Allow me to share the Narcissist’s perspective on the topic of love, written by John Howell:
What happens to a narcissist when they separate from their partner?
After the separation, narcissists become even worse, even meaner, even more selfish. They become aggressive and even if the ex-partner has nothing to do with the separation, the narcissist wants to take revenge on him. The separation is the best reason for narcissistic people to blame their partner for everything.
Why do narcissists go crazy when you go no contact?
When they lose said control, this illusion is shattered. This explains why they shift into turbo gear when you implement No Contact. No Contact makes the Narcissist feel small, worthless, and powerless. They whip themselves into a frenzy because they need your supply to maintain their false image.