Why is the narcissist so happy with the new supply?
The narcissist needs others to boost their ego and feed their feelings of grandiosity and superiority. They would not be willing to have a gap in people who serve that role, so they look for a new supply even while they are still with their old partner.
Should you tell the new supply about the narcissist?
No matter how tempted you may be to warn them of the truth – don’t do it. Don’t try to save the narcissist’s new supply. They will never believe you, just as you wouldn’t have believed anyone if they had tried to warn you, all that time ago. It will only backfire on you.
Does the narcissist prefer you over the new supply?
In your heart, you may want very much for the narcissist to prefer you over the new supply but, the fact is, narcissists don’t really miss any of their former supply sources. Narcissists don’t stay in relationships because they emotionally bond with their partner (s). Narcissists typically have what is called an avoidant attachment style.
Why do narcissists come back when you love them?
Another reason the narcissist might reach back out is that although the narcissist might be considerably happy when they start love bombing a new person, they also understand that all relationships (involving them) are doomed from the very start.
What does it mean when the narcissist says things aren’t working out?
Therefore, when the narcissist says things aren’t working out with the new supply and that they made a mistake, you’re feeling that maybe there’s something about you that the narcissist prefers. This is a story we make up in our minds because we haven’t yet accepted that the narcissist simply cannot emotionally bond with anyone.
What does it mean when a narcissist wants to be friends?
The narcissist might be telling you they made a mistake. Or, maybe they convinced you to be friends after the two of you broke up or after they discarded you, and now you’re hearing all about the new supply, how things aren’t working out, and how they’re trying to figure out a way to get back with you.